Paypal Friends and Family vs. Paypal Goods and Services16583
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Davethebrave private msg quote post Address this user | |
Finally about “checking the box for user agreements”… every piece of software has a UA that may run literally dozens of pages long. If those terms are unreasonable in application do you believe those “agreed to” user agreements will protect a company completely? They are there as part of a system of warning and CYA but I would hazard a guess that fewer than 5% of them are actually read. |
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Davethebrave private msg quote post Address this user | |
https://www.paypal.com/us/smarthelp/article/what's-the-difference-between-friends-and-family-or-goods-and-services-payments-faq638 “ You can make a personal payment to anyone in the U.S. for free.” From their own site in plain language. So is a transfer to a buddy for zero reason (no goods or service in exchange) a “payment”? Or does the friends and family (based on their final summary statement) look likely to cover payments (for exchanged goods or services) to people you trust enough to forgo paypal’s third party escrow type services? Or am I dumb? |
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Towmater private msg quote post Address this user | |
Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave The above doesn't provide relief from the consequences of not following the user's agreement. Also, I'm not sure why you keep bringing up eBay in your posts. This topic, as far as I can tell, is about using Paypal, which is a separate company from eBay, to receive funds for goods via Paypal's Friends and Family. Did I miss the section of the thread where I mentioned an eBay transaction? I never did. Furthermore, your description of what a lawyer may do (post 75) is speculative at best. When they do a quick cost ratio in their head of a couple of grand locked in whatever account vs. the court/arbitration costs and their time that will be spent and billed for, you will hear them say, "Do you want to spend good funds to go after bad funds?" If you have an attorney on retainer, and they are worth their salt, then you will get that response from them. They are politely asking you to take a moment and realize that you won't like the outcome if you continue down that path. In other words, it is a dumb idea to continue the reckless actions that got you in the bind in the first place. Take a breath, relax, and in 90 to 180 days the account will be unlocked is what they are attempting to get you to do. It is the best course of action to see a positive result. Quote: Originally Posted by Davethebrave I would refer you to their User Agreement https://www.paypal.com/us/webapps/mpp/ua/useragreement-full "Receiving payments If you use your PayPal account to receive payments for the sale of goods or services or to receive donations, you must: - Pay any applicable fees for receiving the funds. - Not ask your buyer to send you money using the “send money to a friend or family member.” If you do so, PayPal may remove your PayPal account’s ability to accept payments from friends or family members. By integrating into your online checkout/platform any functionality intended to enable a payer without a PayPal account to send a payment to your PayPal account, you agree to all further terms of use of that functionality which PayPal will make available to you on any page on the PayPal or Braintree website (including any page for developers and our Legal Agreements page) or online platform. Such further terms include the PayPal Alternative Payment Methods Agreement." I think that answers your question |
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Davethebrave private msg quote post Address this user | |
@Towmater I think that you miss the point. If a friend goes and buys me some beer and drops it off - and the beer costs $15 and I pay him $20 through Paypal. Is that F&F or G&S under their definition? Or is a part of this (a large part) the notion of arms length vs non arms length? What if we are talking payment for a loan? Well, lending money is clearly a service (under pro circumstances) - so a friend lending $10 and then getting repaid… is that G&S or F&F? Or does the non arms length nature change the coverage definition? Note that Paypal uses the term payment and not “transfer” for their “free” option… a payment is by definition based on a contractual obligation. As for my “speculation” on legal treatment, my point is not on a case by case basis. It is whether it would be litigated on a mass scale (if they hold back funds indefinitely the cause of harm would be massively different than their temp holds). You referencing the UA is also missing the point, entirely. |
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Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave In the context of a thread about 'low level' comic folks using F&F on their few thousands of dollars of buying/selling, in order to save a couple hundred on taxes, someone is going to hire a lawyer to sue paypal? |
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Davethebrave private msg quote post Address this user | |
Quote:Originally Posted by xkonk No, but if they withheld funds indefinitely for breaking these ironclad UA rules, they would likely be subjecting themselves to class action suits. They know this so avoid the issue. Edit: nothing to do with tax avoidance (F&F vs G&S), at least for me. It is arms length vs non arms length. Do I trust that I do not require the protection afforded by Paypal’s escrow services and guarantees. If I don’t require those services, why pay for them? Paypal is getting tremendous value out of me as a customer because I transact through them for convenience (and the vast, vast majority under G&S). I don’t sell collectibles generally so honestly this is mostly a non-issue for me personally. |
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cesidio private msg quote post Address this user | |
Personally I'm done with PayPal. Two transactions in the last week. One board member was kind enough to refund after board member realized slab was sold. Other one...let's just say I'm going to have to chase said person to Egypt and back to get my money. Use PayPal always be ready to be left holding the bag. My 2 cents | ||
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. If trust isn’t an issue, here’s an old school approach. At the same time, the Seller mails certified book and the Buyer mails certified check. Problem solved. ![]() |
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Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave Your reference to the types of sweeping mass litigation against Paypal for what we are writing about is absurd. If it was going to happen, then it would have already taken place. Getting the needed number of people to sign up for that type of action would be a nightmare, and the costs involved would outweigh any possible return. The damages that could be shown per individual just aren't there. Also, specialized attorneys in mass tort suits would have filed suit long ago if they believed that a "win" was possible. In other words, a nice try at attempting to obscure my point. Also, let's bring the conversation back to what the thread is about when attempting to define the usage of Friends and Family Service. The thread is about a transaction for a comic book. It isn't anything else. Entity A has a comic book/good. Entity B is buying the comic book/good. Funds are transferred for the comic book/good. Anyone using Paypal has agreed to render payment and accept payment in the way provided under their definition of paying for a good or service. While it might be exciting to chat about all the other hypotheticals, you seem to want to go off on, the duck is a duck. It isn't a deer, mouse, ant, phone, or whatever you are attempting to shape it into. |
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Quote:Originally Posted by earthshaker01 I said "as a buyer". |
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If it’s a relatively small amount, and I’ve dealt with the person a couple times, I don’t mind sending Friends & Family. If it’s a big purchase, I sometimes offer to pay half of the Goods & Services charge. I’m saving not going through e-Bay either way. |
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I love how some people justify ripping off PayPal "because they deserve it". Ethics and morals be damned! | ||
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@Towmater you, again, miss the point (including re: a class suit IF paypal froze funds for longer periods, which they do not). If I buy a comic from someone else as part of my personal collection it is a payment. Not part of my business. If the seller is an individual I know then paypal is merely acting to facilitate the payment. Does that warrant the fee they would charge under G&S? No, it doesn’t. I have no need to subsidize their insuring of other arms length deals. Their fee for that convenience (if I transact as G&S) would be absurdly high. If I elect with seller to treat as a friendly deal without protections then I am afoul of the UA - even if on the surface it looks more like a real F&F trxn. We could otherwise use a standard check etc (but for convenience). There is nothing irrelevant about my comparisons. Answer my question on non arms length lending and supplemental “service fees” (beer example). Or respond to my point on paypal referring to the word “payment” as being free vs transfer. Once you start invoking legalese through the Ua you need to be willing to engage on those terms. Paypal is likely allowing massive amounts of grey zone F&F to continue because it makes them big $ long-term vs upsetting clients. Now I would guess their algorithms do choke out people transacting big primarily or exclusively under F&F and not G&S… regardless of a potentially broader application of their UA. |
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Davethebrave private msg quote post Address this user | |
I won’t engage on this further even if my replies take only a minute to type. @Towmater believe what you want, no skin off my back. | ||
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These kind of threads are always informative and important wherever sales take place ![]() I always look at it as; If someone is willing to try one trick to bypass a rule, for personal gain, what else are they willing to try? Then I move on. |
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Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave What a load of crap ![]() |
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Davethebrave private msg quote post Address this user | |
Quote:Originally Posted by Siggy What I have learned is the first person to throw out an insult (“dumb”) is usually lacking in other faculties. I have also learned (not really) that applying reason is sometimes unreasonable, especially online. This is obvious of course, so just kidding. Finally, in the real world I have seen that people who are outwardly, self-proclaiming rule followers or moral compass holders are, in practice, often the biggest hypocrites. |
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@Davethebrave - a lot of what you are pointing out is why I related that I might be inclined to use F&F with certain people on this forum since I have either traded or transacted with them in the past, or have otherwise interacted with them on the forum, or can see from their past transactions with others on the forum that they act in a just and upright manner. Then there is @EbayMafia…I try to avoid transactions with organized…collectors ![]() |
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Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave ![]() |
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Towmater private msg quote post Address this user | |
Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave To quote you custom title TL;DR In reading this thread and the plethora of "tax threads", I have learned which people don't have a problem rationalizing bad behavior or would choose to do business in a way that screws some other entity. Thus, I wouldn't do business with them. |
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Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave This 100% |
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flanders private msg quote post Address this user | |
Has anyone who lives in California registered for a seller's permit? I'm visiting the site for the first time. It looks like it's free. https://www.cdtfa.ca.gov/taxes-and-fees/faqseller.htm |
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@flanders I do t remember what the permit cost. But I paid like $500 for my business license. | ||
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Quote:Originally Posted by DavethebraveI find that people who make a post like this are trying to convince others that their shady behavior isn't shady. |
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Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave Thank you for sharing. Why are you telling me? Quote: Originally Posted by Davethebrave That's convenient. |
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Scifinator private msg quote post Address this user | |
@flanders - not free. Mosr counties in CA will require their own fees and even registration once you have a CA sellers permit. | ||
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“And the homeeeeeeeeeeeee of the feeeeeeeeeeeeees” | ||
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Towmater private msg quote post Address this user | |
Quote:Originally Posted by Davethebrave Perhaps they are former law enforcement officers who spent years incarcerating criminals and seen the effects of those criminals' actions on the innocent. As a result, they have no issue identifying a duck nor spend time attempting to mold it into something it isn't. Apparently, your milage varies. |
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